5 Things to Retire From Your Closet This Year: A “Frumpy” Audit

It’s a universal feeling: standing in front of a full closet, feeling like nothing fits quite right, or worse, feeling like our clothes are dragging our energy down. Fashion should be a tool for confidence, but sometimes we cling to items out of habit, comfort, or the memory of what used to work.
The goal of a “frumpy audit” isn’t to chase every fleeting runway trend; it’s about identifying pieces that lack structure, date your look, or simply don’t do justice to your silhouette. By retiring a few dated staples, you make room for modern classics that feel fresh and intentional.
Here are five items to consider retiring this year and the modern upgrades that will revitalize your wardrobe.
(Scroll to the bottom to see our AI Models.)
1. Retire: The “Waterfall” Cardigan
The Issue:
That draped, open-front look doesn’t give the eye a clear place to land. All that extra fabric can feel a little heavy and can actually hide your shape instead of flattering it. On many women, it ends up looking more bulky than elegant, and yes, a bit dated.
The Upgrade:
Instead, look for cardigans with a more structured, “jacket-like” feel. A cropped cardigan that hits at the waist or hip instantly creates a cleaner, more polished line. These work great for petites. If you prefer a longer layer, go for a straight-cut duster that skims the body instead of draping.
Details matter here. Think real buttons, a bit of texture like ribbing or bouclé, and a shape that follows your frame instead of overwhelming it. You’ll still get the comfort and warmth, but with a fresh, modern look that feels put-together without trying too hard.
2. Retire: Tight, Low-Rise “Skinny” Jeans
The Issue: Extremely tight denim with a low rise can be uncomfortable and often creates an unbalanced silhouette. While skinny jeans will always have a place in some wardrobes, the modern “Sport-Chic” aesthetic favors a bit more breathing room and a higher rise that supports the midsection.
The Upgrade: The Straight-Leg or Slim-Demi Boot A straight-leg jean in a dark or medium wash is the ultimate versatile piece. It creates a long, vertical line from the hip to the ankle. If you miss the snugness of a skinny jean, try a “slim-straight” fit—it offers the tailored look without looking painted on.
3. Retire: The “Cold-Shoulder” Top
The Issue: Cut-out shoulders had a long run, but they have officially moved into “dated” territory. They often complicate your choice of undergarments and break up the line of the arm in a way that can look busy rather than breezy.
The Upgrade: The Crisp Button-Down or Boatneck Tee Swap the cut-outs for purposeful necklines. A high-quality cotton poplin button-down is timeless and can be styled with the sleeves rolled up for an effortless look. For a softer option, a boatneck top draws the eye across the shoulders, creating a graceful, polished silhouette.


4. Retire: Oversized, Unstructured “Sack” Dresses
The Issue: There is a fine line between “relaxed” and “shapeless.” While oversized linen or cotton dresses feel great in the heat, too much volume can swallow you whole. If a garment doesn’t have a point of tension (like a defined shoulder or a tapered hem), it often contributes to that “frumpy” feeling.
The Upgrade: The Belted Shirt Dress or Column Dress Look for dresses that offer a bit of “architectural” integrity. A shirt dress with a self-tie belt allows you to define your waist as much or as little as you like. A column dress in a mid-weight knit provides a sleek, modern look that works perfectly with a sneaker or a flat.
5. Retire: “Old-School” Round-Toe Athletic Sneakers
The Issue: We all love comfort, but the clunky, mesh “gym only” sneakers worn with everyday outfits can pull a look down. If the shoe looks like it was designed strictly for the treadmill, it likely isn’t doing your casual outfit any favors.
The Upgrade: The Sleek Leather Sneaker or Retro Runner The “Sport-Chic” movement is built on the foundation of the lifestyle sneaker. Look for low-profile leather options (like a Veja or Stan Smith) or retro-inspired runners in neutral tones like beige, white, or navy. These pairs look just as good with trousers as they do with leggings.


How to Conduct Your Own Audit
When you’re going through your closet, ask yourself these three questions for every item:
- Does it fit my current lifestyle?
- Does it have a shape?
- Does it make me feel “current”?
The Final Polish
Once you’ve cleared out the “frumpy” culprits, focus on the details. Modernizing your look is often about the tuck (try a half-tuck with your shirts), the cuff (show a little ankle or wrist), and the texture (mix linen with leather or denim with silk).
Refreshing your wardrobe isn’t about getting rid of “you”; it’s about revealing the most vibrant, updated version of yourself.























I scrolled through the beginning of this post thinking “great advice if you are pencil thin and a lovely hourglass shape!” Then I read the rest, and saw various sized models with the comparison shots. I retract my grumpy comments. Thank you for showing those, and in more than one outfit. It’s truly useful information.
haha. Thank you, Jennifer! I try to include “Robert, Louise, and Margaret” as much as possible. 🙂
Love the different models and the slide to see the styling difference! So very helpful! Also- ha, I’m a calamity Jane too! I enjoy your stories.
Thank you, Kim! I should add a whole page on How To Fix…the mess I make daily. 🙂 I’m glad you’re here.
Okay so out with the waterfall cardigans, cold shoulder tops, shapeless dresses and I got rid of the low rise jeans years ago even though I never had to worry about a muffin top just felt like they weren’t comfortable or flattering . Thanks for the post .
You’re ahead of the game! I never liked cold shoulder tops anyway. My shoulders were always cold, lol.
Thank you for including XL styling in your post.
You’re so welcome! 🙂
Love, love love the new side by side Ai. How cool is that and even the slide that let you see a front tuck or not. Such a great help visually. Awesome post, Thanks.
It made such a huge difference, I had to share!
Great post!
Thank you! xo
I am doing a slow closet clean out, your suggestions are good guidelines. I was tryin on dresses yesterday, and thinking , this is ok, just add a belt, shapewear, but when I put on a dress that fit perfectly, it was an eye opener. The “it’s ok” ones need to go into the donate bag. Thanks for the inspiration, and I really like the IA models showing the outfit at various sizes. Have a blessed day!
Thank you, Jenice! Moving has given me a great opportunity to clean out my closet. I’ve lost everything, lol.
Love the new options on ur site. Continued prayers for y’all 🙏
Thank you so much, Michelle!
Lisa, what makes your site my “go to” is your practical advice. So appreciate your down to earth suggestions. Very helpful. Thanks always!
Thank you. I want to live in that space where I look my best, but I’m not spending 24/7 and tons of $$$ on it. 🙂
Love the model comparison AND the tuck/untuck comparison. Thanks for the extra work in putting these together.
You’re so welcome! I’m never leaving my shirt untucked again, lol.